Collaborative Family Law  at David Gray Solicitors LLP

The “No Court” Commitment

In the Collaborative Family Law process each of you has your own specially trained lawyer. You, your partner and both lawyers work as a team to resolve issues in a series of round table 4-way meetings (two of you plus two lawyers). We all sign an agreement at the beginning that we will not go to Court. If one of you later changes your mind about this, both of you have to hire new lawyers. This helps to ensure we all remain focused on constructively resolving the issues and threatening phrases like “see you in Court” lose all meaning. In our experience this feature of the agreement is very powerful and encourages imaginative problem-solving.

Resolution in real-time

Your lawyers are by your side throughout the process to manage the discussions in a constructive, non-confrontational way. All discussions take place face to face so there is little room for misunderstanding. Your lawyers aim to build trust between you and are trained to help you overcome communication difficulties so you can focus on finding solutions. Both of you are fully involved in discussions.

"Collaborative family law is a way of resolving matters around separation without going to Court"


Tailor-made solutions for your family

No two families are the same, and Collaborative Family Law enables you to focus on issues that are important to your family, and find a solution that works for all of you. You are both in control of the outcome; you are not handing your future over to a court to make decisions for you.

Your lawyers will advise and guide you about the law in the meetings. You will both hear the same information at the same time. Your lawyers work together in a very different way from traditional lawyers preparing for a court hearing. They talk constructively about your respective needs and how to find creative solutions to your particular problems.

Meetings usually last for 1-2 hours, and typically there could be between 2 and 4 meetings. Much depends on how complex your case is. Meetings are arranged at a pace you can both cope with, and in response to issues that arise along the way.

Funding your case

Legal Aid is not yet available for Collaborative Family Law. However, we can discuss other funding options such as meeting your costs from joint assets or incomes.

To find out more about Collaborative Family Law at David Gray Solicitors please contact Jenny Carter, Jane Wilkinson or Mary Shaw who are all Resolution trained Collaborative Family Lawyers.

"I just wanted to say how very grateful I am to you… I'm very glad that we went down the collaborative route… Thank you."

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